What can i do about my first prenatal visit wile im waiting on my insurance to come?

When it comes to insurance companies you aren't really doing much. They will postpone giving you coverage as long as they can. You need to go up there and stay there till it is resolved and threaten to call a lawyer or better yet call one so they can make things happen. In all honesty though it is actually cheaper to not have insurance cover your prenatal care. It might seem like you are saving money but they actually get you in the end with raising your costs of everything you have covered through them. Personally I'd just pay out of pocket. You say you don't have enough money but I bet if you cut a few costs here and there. Like movie rentals, going out to eat or a drive in your car to pick up one thing at the store you don't really need, then you will have enough to pay for your prenatal care.