I need help on what to do about problems with my husband and now im pregnant?

Honey, you DO have more than your hands full with everything involved. Thankfully depressions meds. did at least help your husband, but it seems he does have some kind of anger problems along with depression! His jealously no doubt stems from his lack of self worth which also could be coming from the depression. Hopefully that also has changed for the best. As far as this baby goes, honey, you are going to have to do what's BEST for YOU!!! I sure can appreciate the situation you are in. I once had a situation in my life when I was older, already had 3 children who were in their early teens, the youngest was around 8. The tho't of raising another child was just too much for me. My husband & I discussed it & decided to have an abortion. This was yrs. ago when NYC was the ONLY place you could go & we lived in NJ thankfully. Is there anyway possible you could call maybe Soc. Services or a place who offers free help to those in need. Tell them your situation & that you cannot have another child at this time. Ask them what they suggest & what they could do to help you. I'm sure you have just a one someone you could count on to help you out. If you could get someone to watch your children, someone to take you & bring you home, your husband would not have to know. I will no doubt get zillions of thumbs down for my ans. to you, but I realize the situation you're in, know too well how YOU feel. This IS YOUR body, I feel YOU have the rite to do what you feel is best for YOU. Knowing a touch of your dilemma, I can relate to you. See what you can do & find out so you can have whatever you decide done & taken care of. BTW, I also suggest you get your tubes tied as I also did!...I SO DO wish you the best...:)